wat do u make of???

how do u tell someone really cares for u ?

wat do u make of the one who tells u sweet things n does silly n actually rather stupid actions ?
do u think tt is lasting?i dun think so.. so then, do u shun him? but then again its never for certain if this is lasting or not unless u like him too n give it a shot ..
this guy is a die heart romantic one who believes in giving his lady the best he could n would go to great extent to please her sth like the dead n gone species of the medival kinght in shinning armour
i think... do anything but, dun raise his hopes ..dun take advantage of the naive...
then again .. does it necessarily mean he s naive??
maybe... maybe not.. but one thing s for sure ..my heart is definitely not with him ...

wat do u make of the one who loves u unconditionally, is not romantic but does little stuff (impt stuff) not to show he cares, but, does them because he really cares..? is my heart with him?


wat do u make of the one who has many faces n shows a different side to different pple , who is smooth n experienced...one who is definitely a player .. u dun wan to play his game but ...are u game enough to handle such an aquiantance? then u wonder .. do these pple ever settle down ?!

wat do u make of the one who subtlely cares, makes life easy for u (n i mean MUCH easier) treats u lunch maybe bordering between friends n acquaintance.. however u re but tongue - tied not really becos he makes ur heart pound rather u re afraid of offending the person in question n u dun really dig into wat he bellieves so every word outta ya mouth will be like a curse in his face..but he s a nice fellow .. however in watever sense u remain ever grateful but a little guilty all the same

girls out there if ur heart is free n could belong to anyone which would u choose to marry if u had the choice and which will u date?? hahah

last question:
what do i make of myself? how can i be void of feelings is this how grown ups feel i turned 21 onli to realise some things .. i m no longer the gal who is easily touched my heart is no longer easily won .. i m no longer the 19 yr old who is gets infatuated easily (i mean tts supp to be gd) ..

i no longer haf groups of galfriends who loves watching gd looking guys coyly at one corner n whispering among ourshelves .. we were never the bold n loud sort (came from a cheena sec sch seems like the gals there are really shy n procrastinate a lot (sometimes it really got on my nerves cos so indecisive !!! n wait for other s to make decisions tts y i m always the one making decisions realise tt was bad 2 yrs ago cos i was used to doing wat I wanted to do n grew to expect pple would take up my lead .. bad bad habbit but since then think i ve grown to be more sensitive n considerate to wat others want... ok digression!)but still the teenage heart is ever vunerable we would never go up to get to know them never but would hope in our little pounding hearts they would notice us .. haha it was like an unspoken rule .. onli get to know guys if they approach u not the other way round cos its not ladylike hahahah i thought it was so sexist n was iindignant but well i did not want to be the odd one out .. anyway those little galfriends of mine they grew up to be my best friends .. one of them just wanted to find her true love n get married n setle down but alas it was not to be.. ohh she met many guys alright they came knocking on her door BUT the guys she met are atrocious!!! i was FURIOUS but i guess she learnt her lesson the hard way.. n she changed .. two major changes took place in her n i m glad to be with her when they took place however, i m so sorry i wasnt exactly there for her busy with jc busy with nus but i hope i ll be a better friend... first change, she learnt tt she shouldnt depend on guys totally n friends are very impt .. next stage.. some fundamentals of her beliefs changed n she knows the difference bout being bitter bout guys n now she adopts a positive mentality n knows tt wat she wants is to balance career n family with someone who loves her n she loves .. its not easy to achieve a seemingly simple thing like this but i know she deserves the best n we ll look out for each other..(dun get me wrong! i ve nothing agianst guys! i m not the "all guys are bastards n women in the world unite ! " )kinda person .. i just believe anyone can make a mistake n we should be positive bout it n be aware of it too ..
how do u know u really really love someone? i know pple shld care for each other but .. heres antoher issue
do u prefer someone who cares for everyone n anyone mr nice guy
or a onli care for my gf n others i m not obliged to do anything kind of adoring bf??
which do most gals prefer? the 1s type well some may feel u re sharing him
the sec one well wat say u??